Stay-at-home parent - Daddy style

When I was pregnant with my son I read a novel about a woman who's husband lost his job and she became the breadwinner. Leaving her role as a stayathome, she watched her husband take over and run the household in a very different way. It was more chaotic, and playful. 

The woman in that book struggled with the concept far less than I did two months ago when that fiction became my reality. Any hope I had for a return to full-time motherhood is laughable, as we begin to understand the path that I may attain in my career. The choice was simply whether to be a good parent, after that there was no choice: my hubby needs to stay home with our children.

The family dynamics when the dad is at home are foreign to us. We do not have a model to work with. I suspect, like most things, there are many books and even movies we could find on the subject. In the meantime we are floating in peculiar and inviting waters... And I guess I'm on the lookout for a shark.